the difference:
i apologized

he did not apologize, he rationalized on how it was somehow my fucking fault he threatened me.

and no, i don't think it's hypocritical because he doesn't think he did anything wrong. "oh, well, i FELT darkie would do this thing because i FELT she was talking to this person and MIGHT be giving them information..."

no "hey, darkie-i was wrong". it's somehow my doing, even though there's no proof or reason i did anything. he just assumed based on no reason whatsoever that i gave information to someone and was in cahoots with them and he out and out decides to say "i'll kill you, too, darkie". wtf? now, I'M a hypocrite because i apologized for a cat joke in bad taste, but i told off a guy who rationalizes his death threats to be my fault.

"Sinussa maailman kauneus
Josta kuolema teki minusta taiteilijan"-"Kuolema Tekee Taiteilijan" (Nightwish)